A steady, listening presence
Someone who is not afraid of your grief, and can sit in silence or talk through what is surfacing.
Bereavement Doula Care
Support after stillbirth, infant loss, and pregnancy loss in Tulsa.
Free presence in the first 72 hours, and companionship through the first year. You do not have to walk through this alone.
Immediate Presence is community funded and never invoiced in acute loss.
Upcoming gathering
Still Loved: Paint, Sip & Remember
Thursday, October 15, 2026 · 6–7 PM
Owen Community Center, Tulsa, Oklahoma
What's included
Practical help and quiet presence
In the hardest hours and the slow months that follow, bereavement doula care is about being present, not fixing, just holding.
Memory-making & keepsakes
Help with photographs, footprints, locks of hair, and the small rituals that can become precious later.
Visitor boundaries
A calm presence to field messages and help the people around you show up in ways that actually help.
Partner & family support
Space for your partner, practical help with siblings, and guidance for the people who want to love you well.
Logistics without overwhelm
A calm hand with discharge planning, funeral-home contact, milk suppression, and the calls you do not want to make alone.
Referrals & ongoing care
Connection to counselors, support groups, and the Kindroot After Loss community when you want more support.
Care options
Care for every season of loss
From the first overwhelming hours through the first anniversary, there is support that matches where you are.
Immediate Presence
Free
Up to 6 hours within the first 72 hours, at the hospital or at home.
- Hospital or home presence
- Memory-making and keepsake help
- Visitor management and quiet sitting
- Never invoiced in acute loss
After Loss Companionship
$600
Six 90-minute sessions across 12 weeks.
- Six sessions over 12 weeks
- Partner and family support
- Practical decision-making help
- Text support between sessions
Continuing Care
$750
Monthly check-ins through the first year.
- Monthly sessions through the first year
- Support around the due date
- Support around the first anniversary
- Ongoing resource access
Pregnancy After Loss
Add-on
Extra prenatal support with a birth package.
- Additional prenatal visits
- Appointment accompaniment if desired
- Planning for difficult gestational weeks
- Seamless birth and post-loss support
Need help choosing the right support? Email Tamika for a free, gentle call.
Kindroot After Loss
A community for families after loss
Kindroot After Loss is a continuing-care space for resources, remembrance support, and connection with others who understand.
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Reaching out is the hardest step
Contact Tamika
Call, text, or email. There is no right way to reach out or pressure to know what you need.
Immediate Presence if you want it
If your loss is recent, support can be available at the hospital or your home at no cost.
Choose ongoing care
When you are ready, choose companionship, continuing care, or pregnancy-after-loss support.
You do not have to do this alone
However your loss looks, you deserve someone beside you.
Immediate Presence is always free. Ongoing care is transparent and offered without rush.